There is a lot of difference between talking to a girl looking at her eyes & chatting to know her more. I was pretty much really in to chatting when i started using Facebook for the first time at the age of 14. I was a replying to most of the guys i haven’t met, but with a lot of mutual friends. I didn’t knew how to handle it, but luckily i did managed to get over it.
So if you are really in to a girl, thinking about having a relationship with her, better you create a situation where you can actually talk to her, not phone calls or chats, but looking at her eyes.
So let me take you to a few topics that girls love to talk about in common & so you can know more about you:
Complement her about what she’s wearing:
Girls do love it, but don’t try to fake it. If you really don’t like it, just shhhh…….
Looking good makes a person confident, a man who admire her confidence is pretty attractive. Do make sure you are not complementing her too much, this can make her feel more timid to talk to you. Just say it in a neat, comforting & friendly manner
Do not engaging in talking about how brilliant you are:
This one can really lead to making her bored or in to a verbal spat, that can make her feel, ‘Definitely not him’.
Some times guys do engage into talking about their knowledge in something, like movies, instead of suggesting her movies too watch, don’t mock her saying, oh…. you haven’t seen that yet.. is really irritating.
Talking about her pets:
Girls love spending time with their pets, mostly. So this makes a very comfortable & long topic to discuss about, you can see the smiling & motherly part in her.
Be the real you:
Talk to her with at most genuinity. Sometimes just to make you look attractive, guys do act different than they are, yeah i get it, you might be nervous.
But don’t node your head for everything she says, if she likes something & you don’t be, open about it.
A little shyness, is attractive:
Girls do like boys who are shy & nervous talking to them. They find them a little genuine, different & committed than the cool ones. I didn’t mean, cool ones are less attractive, they are best to be a friend plus lover, to fight, to travel, to love, to be care free.
Eye contact:
Dont over do it, just be casual. Look at her eyes in between talks & take that moment you both lock your eyes. Trust me it works….
Smile at her in between talks:
While having a conversation with her, this is a clue that she could guess if you are in to her.
Yeah… but make sure you don’t look stupid.
If she avoids you:
If she continuous to avoid you after having a conversion with you, that means she is least interested in you. But do hope for the best.
If you actually need true love, don’t be desperate chatting to find a lover. I do see a lot of relationships beginning from a Facebook chat to marriage. But is that how a true love should be?
So these tips are dedicated to those guys who do believe in knowing the actual her before a relationship.
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