Love, acceptance & appreciation are most important things you should give if you want the other person to succeed, I mean if you are genuine. But some say advice’s & criticisms do better. Criticism create a revenge or a rage in peoples mind, when they act like they are criticizing you because they want you to succeed, you know 90% of them are trying to break you & your confidence apart.
But in some cases, the feeling of succeeding in front of those, who told you, you can’t, why are you doing this, to those commenting on your character to looks, is definitely priceless.
Realize, they got time to stalk you.
A few of us, might have faced insults from family members to neighbors, upon our career or looks. Take it as a challenge, that one day you will make them feel bad about what they have done to you in the most healthy way, i.e your success.
Also remember, when you never had time to know about what & how they are, they got time to google your history, so bravo……….
Analyze, what you have to take from them.
One thing more than career & money, people tend to make fun of how others look. So if they make fun of your appearance, & you are already keen to change your looks, go head…
Keep those in your head, do workouts, do good things to improve your body, mind & total appearance.
But if you are happy with the way you look, stay like that. You don’t need to change yourself just to impress them, do it only if you love to do it. You are beautiful just the way you are.
Haters are signs of beginner success.
Sorry to say this, but I really do enjoy the face of those people who made fun of me long back.
Not talking about my career, but i was more fat, even though i never tried to bully or insult others, they simply use to come to me & say what ever they wanted to, because i never reacted or said something back even if they were ugly inside out.
But now, i became confident enough to stand right in-front of them, look in to their eyes with pride. & they might not find words to speak like they used to.
“Learn to use the criticism as fuel and you will never run out of energy.”– Orrin Woodward
Follow what your heart says
Keep doing what you’re doing, and don’t allow others to stop you.
I dont know who said this quote, but yes, life of a hero is tougher than the one we see in a treasure hunting movies. Full of difficulties, tasks, not to give up concepts,etc..
So even if you fail once, twice or a hundred times, you should be happy that you never lived & wasted your entire life trying to please someone else or the so called whatever…….
I thought of getting married, settle down, have a kid, no risks, the normal very simple life every woman dream of. But i am definitly not normal, & i cant pretend to be one forthe rest of my life.
But, some people got haters, because you do bad things to others/ lead a unethical life… So you cant take it as a complement when your are in to cruel things.
“So hey Haters, let me fail, let me weep, you can enjoy. But I am thankful that i had much audiences for my life story, when you had non interested in yours.“
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