The Matrix Of Social Media

& it starts from just a ‘Hi’.

We all do have different forms & attitude in different spaces. The one at home, one with friends, one with elders to a lot more forms.

I was 13 years old, when I joined Facebook. I accepted all the friend request with mutual friends. I replied back to boys who sent me Hi, boys I never saw, or heard about before. I even got texts from celebrity fake accounts, not even sending them any messages & I actually thought that its them.

That was me as a teenager, stupid, silly, unknown about how to handle social media. But being conscious about looks, i never posted my own pictures in Facebook. When I realized I got more than 1000 Facebook friends, 80% of them were strangers to me, I deleted my Facebook account. Started a new one, sending requests to my friends, family, my crush, & people whom i actually like.

So this one is for the teenagers-

Social media is definitely beneficial in all ways, If & only if you use it for social interactions, showcasing your talent, achievements & keeping in touch with friends, classmates & relations in life.

Some guys even get angry or starts talking about our attitude, when we don’t reply them back. Its really scary, but block them. That’s why all social media has got block option in them. That’s the only way to stay safe from social media bullying.

The society always prefer to question a girl than a boy, even we girls do the same to other girls. If a total stranger texts you Hi, Ignore. He texts you again just click, report & block.

But yes, there could be circumstances where you feel lonely or depressed & you get a message from a stranger. There are more chances for you to reply back. Once if you find someone irritating you too much even after blocking, talk to your elder ones or parents or anyone whom you can trust. Now Cops & police officers do help us without creating a scene, warning the bullies.

& even parents needs to keep an eye on their children’s friend-list in social media accounts, through own accounts.

We do live in a generation of Facebook lovers & dating apps. Create a good love story, wait for the right person to come up on your life.

So, enjoy Life, but block the strangers chats if possible.

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